Celebrating Valentine’s Day in NJ can be tricky when you have to score a sitter or make a dinner reservation, but the good news is that we’ve got fresh ideas that you can do anytime you’re able to carve out a date. Make this 2025 V-Day one to remember with a unique celebration—whether spending time sipping a flirty cocktail at a Valentine’s Day themed pop-up bar, dipping into a steaming pool during a weekend getaway, or snow tubing during a night run at a local ski spot. Scroll down to find romantic things you can do to make Valentine’s Day in NJ special this year. And if you’re looking to get away, be sure to check out our guide to winter getaways in New Jersey. (featured photo credit: Crystal Springs Resort)
17 Ways To Celebrate Valentine’s Day In NJ
Cozy up in an igloo for a romantic dinner under the stars. (photo credit: @morristown.nj at @figandlilygarden)
Dine in an igloo
One of the best (and most romantic) ways to enjoy winter dining is the mini igloo structures at restaurants, giving you a chance to snuggle up close under the stars. Check out the garden igloos at Fig and Lily Garden in Morristown from November to May and Marcus at NoHu Rooftop in Weehawken for a unique and private V-Day dinner. For an apres ski feel (minus the skiing), sip bubbly and have bites in a Champagne Chalet at Crystal Springs Resort—they have everything from brunch to fondue to seafood on ice.
Take a spa daycation
Unwind and unpack stress by taking a breather at a day spa. Spend the day lounging at an outdoor steaming pool with heated tents at Sojo Spa Club in Edgewater. Or head to Montclair to experience Bangz Golden Ritual For Two, which includes a gold sugar scrub, scalp and foot massage, and Swedish massage. If you want beach views, head to Long Branch to The Spa at Ocean Place with a couple’s massage. Or feel like you have escaped to the English Countryside at Spa Pendry in Peapack. And if you can’t do it for Valentine’s Day, plan to visit one of these 10 relaxing NJ spas in the coming months.
Create a sweet memento
You know the saying—the couple that creates together stays together, so why not make a keepsake you’ll treasure for years? Re-enact your best Ghost scene at The Center For Contemporary Art in Bedminster, where you’ll get to create a special piece of pottery. Or head to AR Workshop in Turnersville, Westfield, Moorestown, or West Windsor for a lovely Valentine’s Day workshop, including the Date Night Candle Pouring and Scent Mixology Workshop.
Pop-in to a pop-up
If you loved those holiday pop-up bars—think over-the-top themed decor with festive drinks and bites—then take a trip to one of the V-Day ones, where the jolly accents are replaced with hearts, specialty cocktails, and romantic sweets. Swing by The Waiting Room in Hoboken, and you’ll feel like you stepped into a dream date on The Bachelor, with red roses cascading from the ceiling and a cocktail menu with drinks inspired by your favorite rom-coms. Or visit Cupid’s Hideaway at The Seacrest Grille in Spring Lake, adorned with twinkling lights, enchanting heart decorations, delightful cocktails like Chocolate Covered Strawberry Martinis, and a dinner menu that will make you swoon. Down South, Cupid’s Corner Bar at The Mainland in Manahawkin is decked out in V-Day decor of roses, red and white lights, and a candy heart wall for selfies, along with love-themed cocktails, mocktails, desserts, and even a heart-shaped pizza.
Partner up for yoga and relaxation together. (photo credit: istock/davidf)
Practice your couple poses
Whether you regularly practice or have always wanted to try it, a couples yoga class is a great way to mark the occasion. If you want to combine yoga with deep relaxation, try the Peace, Love, and Chocolate: A Restorative & Aromatherapy Workshop at Indigo Yoga in Caldwell.
Partner up for yoga and relaxation together. (photo credit: istock/davidf)
Gather for a getaway
If you can swing kid coverage, escape to a quick getaway in the tri-state area. Find romance in Cape May at the luxury boutique hotel, The Virginia, get whisked away to a Victorian Castle in the Catskills at Mohonk Mountain House, or spend the day in a steamy outdoor pool at the Crystal Springs Resort. Want more ideas on where to go in under two hours? Check out our luxe hotels guide for PA, NJ, and NY hotels, and start planning now.
Get up and away from it all
Few things are more romantic than a hot air balloon ride—you’re floating high in the air in a basket with your loved one while enjoying the beautiful sights below. Reserve a private Dinner Flight for the two of you at In Flight Balloon Adventures, where you’ll soar high above the skies in a one-hour ride and then celebrate with an elegant dinner at the nearby restaurant.
Dance like no one is watching
Learning a few new dance steps is a perfect way to mark this V-Day. Sign up for a private lesson and practice your moves with classic dances like ballroom, swing, waltz, or tango, virtually or in person. Find new ways to swing at Starlight Dance Center in Nutley, Dance With Me in Fort Lee and Glen Rock, or Simply Social Dancing in Hackensack. Or check out Ballroom Dream in South River for online classes that let you learn from the comfort of your living room (and don’t need to hire a sitter).
Volunteer together
Why not set aside some time on Valentine’s Day in NJ to give back to your community? Help build homes with Gloucester County’s Habitat for Humanity, create displays and sort donations for a thrift shop through Hightstown’s Caring Closet, or sort and organize emergency boxes for Marketplace in Hillside. If you want to get out in nature, try a cleanup at Essex County’s Branch Brook Park. There are many more charities throughout New Jersey that assist kids and moms throughout the state that you can give back to for Valentine’s Day.
Explore wineries and breweries with a twist of chocolate
Take a trip to wine country in the Garden State, try a new brewery, and make it a cozy night, sipping your fave libation around a fire pit. Visit Renault Winery for a glass of local champagne (yes, they are one of a handful of US wineries that produce the French sparkling wine), and then take their Chef’s Masterclass Series: Couple’s Valentine’s Cooking class on February 6. For something decadent, head to Willow Creek Winery & Farm in Cape May for a romantic Valentine’s Day dinner at the vineyard on February 14, 2025.
Indulge in chocolate
Instead of giving each other the usual box of chocolates, sample the sweet stuff at this annual Chocolate Walk sponsored by Mullica Hill’s Business Association on February 8. After you check in and get your passports, walk through town and stop at the shops offering sales—and a sweet treat. Or snuggle up with your sweetie during one of two Wine and Chocolate Weekends from Terhune Orchards, where you can enjoy a glass from one of 16 varietals with chocolate pairings of locally made chocolates. And if you want to give the gift of chocolate, NJ has many charming chocolate shops where you can pick up heart-shaped candies for your sweetie.
Cook together with a chef
Even if your S.O. doesn’t know a whisk from a whip, it can still be fun to cook together with a DIY kit or in-person class. Tony Boloney offers kits with all the ingredients to make beloved Italian comfort foods like meatballs, mutz (mozzarella), and pizza, along with virtual class links to follow along. Hudson Table in Hoboken offers hands-on cooking classes to make pasta or specialty foods and a full dinner menu. Or head down the turnpike to Taste & Technique Cooking Studio in Fair Haven, where they offer a Couples: Be My Valentine class full of showstopper treats.
Bring out your inner artist
If you’ve never done a sip and paint class together, why not try it this Valentine’s Day in NJ? Pinot’s Palette will whisk you away on an artsy getaway in their locations in Cherry Hill, Brick, or Nutley. Or try glass blowing at Hot Sand in Asbury Park for a truly magical art experience.
Glide into romance
Wintery weather, an outdoor ice rink, and cozying up to stay warm—you can’t go wrong with spinning around the ice rink together for a classic winter activity. Whether it’s skating beneath the twinkling lights at Mercer County Park in West Windsor, letting loose at Newport Skates in Jersey City, or taking a skating class at the Flemington Ice Arena in Flemington. If you are looking for more there are plenty of ice skating rinks around New Jersey.
Rock or laugh the night away
Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to take in a show. Cozy up with your loved one at the Mayo Performing Arts Center, The State Theatre of New Jersey, or NJPAC in Newark. Or find another nearby New Jersey performing arts center. After the show, enjoy dinner for two at a nearby restaurant.
Have a tubular-time
Snow tubing is an exhilarating activity to do with your loved one (shh, don’t tell the kids). You slide down on comfy inner tubes and warm up in the lodge with a hot toddy afterward. Campgaw in Mahwah offers day and night snow tubing sessions, or you can head to Mountain Creek in Vernon, where you can sip a cocktail by the fire après-tubing.
Ski or snowboard after dark
Zooming down a snowy mountain on skis or a snowboard is one experience, but have you ever tried going downhill once the sun goes down? It’s even more exhilarating and romantic. Try twilight skiing at Big Boulder in White Haven, PA., Or whiz down the mountain and stop at Midland at Montage Mountain in Scranton, PA, to hang by one of the firepits with a cup of steaming hot cocoa to warm up. And if skiing past 5 PM isn’t your thing, find one of the ski resorts in or near NJ, where you can go for a day on the slopes.
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