Nestled in the heart of Stone Harbor, The Reeds at Shelter Haven in Stone Harbor is the kind of place that has it all—luxury accommodations, stunning waterfront views, and the perfect mix of relaxation and adventure. Whether you’re looking for a romantic getaway, a family trip, or just some downtime by the shore, this boutique hotel is a year-round destination you’ll want to keep coming back to. My family and I recently spent a long weekend at The Reeds, and from the moment we arrived, it felt like we had discovered a little slice of paradise right here in New Jersey. Read on to find out why The Reeds is one of our favorite spots and how to make the most of your visit.
The elegant living room with bar and home to live entertainment. Photo Credit: NJ Mom
A Luxurious Home Away From Home at The Reeds At Shelter Haven
The moment we pulled up to The Reeds At Shelter Haven, we were greeted with warm smiles and a stunning view of the bay. The vibe was upscale but inviting, and the staff made us feel at home right away. We stayed in a waterfront suite with plenty of space for the whole family to spread out. Our suite had a coastal-chic decor with soft, neutral tones that instantly put us in relaxation mode. The views from our private balcony were spectacular—in the morning, we sat out with our coffee, watching the boats drift by and soaking in the peaceful atmosphere.
The bay side view at The Reeds at Shelter Haven. Photo Credit: NJ Mom
Waterfront Adventures and Bayside Relaxation
One of the things we love most about The Reeds At Shelter Haven is how it caters to both relaxation and activity. During the day, we took full advantage of their waterfront location. My husband and I rented paddleboards while the kids had fun kayaking around the bay. For those looking for even more adventure, The Reeds also offers boat rentals and fishing excursions. After our time on the water, we lounged at their Roof Garden Sundeck overlooking the bay. It was the perfect way to unwind while the kids enjoyed their time in the family-friendly plunge pools on the Sundeck.
Elegant dining at Sax at The Reeds at Shelter Haven. Photo Credit: NJ Mom
Dining That Delights Every Palate
Dining at The Reeds was an experience in itself. We started each morning with breakfast at Sax, their elegant dining space featuring local ingredients and creative twists on classic dishes. The kids couldn’t get enough of the fluffy pancakes, while my husband and I loved the smoked salmon avocado toast.
For lunch, we grabbed casual bites at Buckets Margarita Bar & Cantina, where we indulged in fresh tacos and refreshing margaritas right by the water. Dinner was the real highlight—at Water Star Grille, we savored fresh seafood (the lobster ravioli was to die for) while enjoying a spectacular sunset over the bay.
The rooms are well-appointed, coastal chic vibes. Photo Credit: NJ Mom
Kid-Friendly Fun and Grown-Up Escapes
One of the things that sets The Reeds apart is how well it balances family-friendly activities with options for adults to enjoy. While the kids splashed at the Aqua Park adjacent to the hotel with my parents, my husband and I escaped to the Salt Spa for some much-needed pampering.
The Salt Spa is a haven of relaxation, offering everything from massages to facials to the healing benefits of their Himalayan salt chamber. I tried their signature detox wrap and Turkish Bath, and it was pure bliss. Meanwhile, my husband enjoyed a massage and float treatment for total relaxation.
Sunset dining and activities like yoga are enjoyed in season at The Reeds at Shelter Haven. Photo Credit: NJ Mom
What to Know Before You Go to The Reeds At Shelter Haven
The Reeds at Shelter Haven is a popular spot, especially during the summer, so make your reservations well in advance. While summer offers prime beach days and water activities, fall and winter bring cozy vibes with fire pits, spa treatments, and holiday events. The Reeds At Shelter Haven offers plenty of kid-friendly amenities, but it’s also perfect for a romantic getaway or girls’ weekend. Stone Harbor’s charming downtown is just steps away, with boutique shops, art galleries, and plenty of ice cream spots for the kids. The Reeds starts at $200 a night and offers complimentary valet parking for guests. Hotel room reservations can be made online, and if you decide to visit the spa, it is highly recommended to book that experience in advance. Dining reservations are recommended for all restaurants at the hotel in season. There is an on-site fitness center, daily yoga (in season) at 8am every morning, and your stay includes complimentary beach butler service including beach chairs, towels, and umbrellas (mom win!), complimentary bay activities including paddle boarding and kayaking, as well as complimentary wi-fi for guests.
The beautiful suites are a special occasion treat. Photo Credit: NJ Mom
Why We’ll Be Back To The Reeds in Stone Harbor
Our stay at The Reeds at Shelter Haven was the perfect mix of relaxation, adventure, and indulgence. From the stunning waterfront views to the thoughtful details that made us feel welcome, it’s a destination we’ll be dreaming about until our next visit. Whether you’re planning a family vacation, a romantic escape, or a weekend of self-care, The Reeds is a must-visit spot in New Jersey.
The Reeds at Shelter Haven
9601 3rd Avenue
Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
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