MAC Center for Santa Breakfast and all family-friendly events

Before you plan your Christmas in Cape May, check out this listing of events that is the Little Black Book of Christmas in Cape May—you’ll find everything you need to know in their interactive calendar, including kid-centric activities, tours of Victorian decorated inns, local gift ideas and the inside scoop for where to see the big guy in the red suit. Want to book breakfast with Santa? Althea’s at the Inn at Cape May is hosting Mr. Claus this year on weekends, but reservations and tickets must be made in advance. Buy your tickets through MAC here. 

Step back in time to a Victorian Holiday at the Physick Estate, where you can learn how the Victorian residents celebrated Christmas long ago. This living history tour features docents dressed in 1890 costumes and explains the differences between Christmas then and now. Check out the candlelight tour to see how former residents would have entertained during the holidays.

This free exhibit located in the Carriage House of the Physick Estate museum is the kind of thing your kids will be talking about for days. The stunning scene will wow them— model trains whiz alongside the charming, miniature Dickens Village beneath a giant glowing Christmas tree.

All That Glitters Trolley Tour

What better way to see Cape May in its holiday best than on an old-fashioned trolley ride? Kids will be in awe of the twinkling lights and festive decor on homes and inns in the historic district. Expect it to feel like 1899 as the Victorians ring in the new year during the trolley tour.

Cape May Carriage Tours

No Christmas movie experience would be complete with a historic horse and carriage ride—and with the lights on the candy-colored houses twinkling, it captures the magic of the holidays perfectly. You can take a ride in a decorated wagon, classic coach, or for a storybook feel, book the Cinderella Pumpkin ride, which is a beautiful lit-up carriage fit for a princess or prince.

Come to shop for gifts at the vendor village while littles hop on a train ride, make seasonal crafts, visit Santa’s workshop to say hi to the big guy, and sip hot cocoa while admiring the 30-foot lit tree. You can also book a breakfast with Santa or a cozy igloo to dine outside with the fam among the glowing lights. With historic decor and beautiful trimmings, it’s a magical experience the whole family will love.

What’s most awesome about this zoo? It’s open year-round, and it’s FREE. There’s also free parking, so plan to spend time checking out the camels, giraffes, otters, birds, and reptiles, as well as the festive decor and lit tree as you walk along the path (if you’re thinking for next year, make sure you don’t miss the Santa’s Tree Lighting experience and the nearby The Santa Express train that happens the weekend after Thanksgiving). You can also take a 90-minute guided tour or give your kids a huge thrill by booking an animal encounter, the zoo’s signature experience that lets you meet animals and learn how they are cared for behind-the-scenes.

Take a break from the holiday happenings and head to this vineyard, the only winery on Cape May Island surrounded by the ocean and the bay. With a microclimate that’s reminiscent of France’s famed Bordeaux region, this winery offers rich reds and crisp whites for tastings, and if you want to stay awhile, a farm-to-table menu for lunch and dinner. Holiday events are happening throughout the Christmas season in Cape May, including fire pit Fridays and Saturdays, and a sip and shop event.

Hotels to stay in for Christmas in Cape May

Lokal Hotel

This boutique beach hotel is a fresh twist of modern design in a sea of Victorian-style bed and breakfast inns. The fam will feel right at home here— each room features a cozy living room, a full-service, stocked kitchen with plenty of dining space (so you can have meals in with littles), marble bathrooms, and comfy beds, including some with kid-friendly bunks. Feeling like you need to unwind? Schedule a massage while kids play board games provided by the hotel. Local Hotels’ smaller size and attention to detail give you a sense of calm as soon as you step through the doors—a welcome relief to all the holiday hustle and bustle happening outside.
5 Stockton Place, Cape May, NJ 08204
(609) 536-9157

ICONA Cape May

This beachside, newly-renovated boutique hotel is awash in white and blues with a fresh contemporary feel that puts you in vacation mode as soon as you walk through the doors. The ample nautical-style rooms can accommodate any size family (book an ocean-view suite for separate living and sleeping areas if you want more space) and bathrooms are super luxe with marble finishes. And the hotel is in a great location for exploring—with a prime spot on Ocean Ave, it’s a short walk (or trolley ride) to all the festivities in the center of town.
1101 Beach Avenue, Cape May, NJ 08204
(609) 551-0100

The Grand Hotel

You can’t beat the beachfront location, huge-sized rooms and suites with kitchenettes, the onsite family-friendly restaurant Hemingway’s, and an indoor pool at this full-service resort. Kids will have a ball splashing around in the pool and playing arcade games in the game room while you sweat it out in the fitness center. Each morning, Hemingway’s offers a huge breakfast menu filled with Belgium waffle and omelets, and since both their lunch and dinner menu feature locally-sourced seafood and mouthwatering steaks, there’s no need to leave the hotel (which is so key when you’ve got littles that go to bed early). If you can carve out adult time (and swing a sitter), check out the Hemingway’s Bar.
1045 Beach Ave, Cape May, NJ 08204
(800) 257-8550

Congress Hall

This picture-perfect, historic hotel is what Christmas in Cape May dreams are made of— the seaside resort transforms into a winter wonderland complete with a carousel, train, an enchanted shopping village, and Santa’s Workshop, where kids can get personalized elf hats, listen to Mrs.Claus read stories, make crafts and write letters to the big guy. If that’s not enough, the entire resort is decorated with a traditional yuletide touch from top to bottom with fresh greens, giant nutcrackers, and a magnificent lit tree that makes you feel like you’ve landed in a classic Christmas movie. Opt for one of their holiday packages that include a family bingo and dinner, breakfast with Santa, or a festive feast complete with all the trimmings on Christmas Day.
200 Congress Place, Cape May, NJ 08204
(888) 944-1816

The Virginia Hotel

Ok, this one is not kid-friendly, but it’s worth a mention if you can sneak away for a romantic weekend to this beautiful manor, which has privileges with Congress Hall (hello fitness room and spa). The gorgeous, charming decor makes you feel like you’re in a friend’s fantastic country house—each room boasts luxe Belgium linens and plush furnishings done up in crisp whites and soft blues, while the cozy living room downstairs has a roaring fireplace and comfy leather chairs. A continental breakfast is included with each room, and for dinner, you won’t want to go any further than the famed Ebbitt Room— they source the cuisine from their very own Beach Plum Farm, and there’s a jazzy piano player on weekends. Guests with children are invited to stay in their private Virginia Cottages.
25 Jackson Street, Cape May, NJ 08204
(800) 732-4236